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  • September 19 ,2017

HOW TO || Be Your Own Anchor

Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves? Why are we always running and waiting for the next big thing?
Not gonna lie, I've been feeling this way for some time now and I thought I'll share my random mind shenanigans with you guys. 

I still remember when I was young, all I wanted was to make my parents proud and inspire people so that they don't feel the same way I did at that point of time. And fast forward to almost 7 years later, I've everything that I wanted and maybe even more. So what's the issue? 
Don't get me wrong, I'm super blessed and grateful for everything that I have but now there are so many other things that I've to think about. 
The social media pressure gets on you sometimes and there are times when even for a day if I'm sitting idle, my brain tricks me into feeling guilty. There's a constant pressure of creating something new, interesting and fun which sometimes makes you not enjoy the present moment fully. 

I know there must've been so many times when you guys must have felt the same way, seeing a person's story and comparing your life to them and boom you're in a black hole! 5 minutes back you were happy and now, all of a sudden sad you're sad. 
You see, comparison kills everything. It makes you compare your backstage moments to everyone's highlights which is so wrong. 

And I've come to a realization that it's okay to feel things and it's okay to feel down at times, it's the  "OMG, why am I sad" that makes you overthink. 
Allow yourself to feel things, allow yourself to take a day off, allow yourself to just rest and enjoy. 
ALLOW yourself to be HAPPY. 
Because YOU ARE IMPORTANT. 

So, if you're going through one of those days and don't know which way to go or you're going through that phase where you're tired of comparing your life to every single person on your friend list - 
BREATHE. 
You're so perfect and so amazing that you don't even know that. No! You don't look like that person -  So what? You are you and I'm sure you can do some amazing things which that x person can't do, even if you don't have it figured out yet.
Get yourself out there. Let's take today, I was going through that black hole but I decided instead to write this post which indeed makes me happy and maybe will help some of you guys too. Find your thing! Find what makes you alive. Maybe it's dancing, maybe it's singing, maybe it's cooking, fashion, painting, writing, reading or whatever. 


For me, it's encouraging you guys and seeing a smile on your face because of me. It's that one moment when I meet you guys and you say that I've changed your life, that my words motivated you to do better and that you love your body now because of my words and little motivational sessions on Snapchat. 
It's the time that I spend with my family, laughing and goofing around. 


And as they say, It's the little things in life. Don't complicate your life. You've so many amazing things which you take granted for - just like the phone you're reading this on or laptop or a home while there are so many people struggling for food and shelter. 

Be grateful and I promise amazing things will happen. ❤

 

 

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Comments(64)

Priya
19-Sep-2017 10:51:30 PM

You are one of the most inspiring and positive person I have seen.Inspite of achieving so much you always take time to talk about the things that makes a difference to others lives.Keep doing the amazing work you do :) :*

Gayatri mudgil
19-Sep-2017 10:57:12 PM

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL! COMPLETELY LOVED IT❤ thankyou for doing what you do. :')

Gayatri mudgil
19-Sep-2017 10:57:13 PM

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL! COMPLETELY LOVED IT❤ thankyou for doing what you do. :')

Gayatri mudgil
19-Sep-2017 10:57:13 PM

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL! COMPLETELY LOVED IT❤ thankyou for doing what you do. :')

Gayatri mudgil
19-Sep-2017 10:57:13 PM

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL! COMPLETELY LOVED IT❤ thankyou for doing what you do. :')

Ambika
19-Sep-2017 10:57:40 PM

I am just 17 years old and you see I have passed the phase which had transformed me from chirpy to all morose . Then I was asked to follow you ! And I enjoyed being a part of your fam . Right now it's 12 and I was going through the same pressure. You helped me to smile ? Thanks. Also later that day I was returning home after giving my exam and I saw a girl watching Ur video with earplugs but I laughed before him when I knew she will too coz I had seen that so many times so I knew all the words and when they shall make her smile 🎀 Love you ! ❤

Samikssha
19-Sep-2017 11:02:47 PM

Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Sanya
19-Sep-2017 11:02:51 PM

You be the bestt kritika dii❤️❤️love you alotttt💋💋❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Ishika
19-Sep-2017 11:03:38 PM

Hey Di! I always wanted you to know that your words are worth reading, they dont just make us feel better but provide us with the motivation of ignoring all the stuff that is hurting us especially the social media thing. This was much needed! Thanks you so much and ya your snapchat motivational sessions are missed, please really need one! Also, your smile is the prettiest whenever you feel sad, just look behind, you have already built up an army of your own, we really love you and adore you! You are the best and there is no doubt to that. Love your smile <3

Arshia Kochhar
19-Sep-2017 11:05:56 PM

@thatbohogirl You always spread so much positivity around. You are a big inspiration for all of the young girls out there. I mean you are so kind. You always make me realise that being sad is no solution, we need to fight, we need to face our problems. First of all we need to love ourselves. You know, your motivational sessions help so much. I literally feel incomplete without watching your snaps. I really want to talk to you once, really want to meet you. I am a changed person after following you❤. You know I have started loving myself with imperfections, I am so thankful to you. Thank you so much for everything. Thank you for making me a better person. I love you so much😘 Your awesomeness isn't describable.❤ (P.s- i really want you to plan a meetup in amritsar)

Niharika
19-Sep-2017 11:10:50 PM

Such a beautiful post❤️You are a true inspiration ❤️I love u for who you are,pure🙈 More power to you Supergirl❤️💛💪🏻

Shweta
19-Sep-2017 11:14:45 PM

So So Soooooo Beautiful Kritika, I won't hide but I feel jealous of you, not because what you have achieved but because you seem to be super busy and when I watch your stories on snapchat, I feel like I am so free to watch your stories while you are busy creating your own stories. But then yes, I take myself out of that Black Hole, reminding other good stuffs but after reading this, I realised its normal like you feel guilty being idle or busy, same is ME or may be All are Same, its just the matter of holding things for long or short, that creates the difference, keep writing stuffs that are real. Love you,commenting first time. <3

Shweta
19-Sep-2017 11:14:45 PM

So So Soooooo Beautiful Kritika, I won't hide but I feel jealous of you, not because what you have achieved but because you seem to be super busy and when I watch your stories on snapchat, I feel like I am so free to watch your stories while you are busy creating your own stories. But then yes, I take myself out of that Black Hole, reminding other good stuffs but after reading this, I realised its normal like you feel guilty being idle or busy, same is ME or may be All are Same, its just the matter of holding things for long or short, that creates the difference, keep writing stuffs that are real. Love you,commenting first time. <3

Devina
19-Sep-2017 11:15:31 PM

Full of life and energy. I can relate to every single sentence dear. There are very few people in this world who spread positivity around and feel happy to see smile on other's faces, believe me I've found that friend in you Kritika.. I wish u succes till infinity 😍😍😍Love u

Ayushi jain
19-Sep-2017 11:16:29 PM

I just wanna say that I love you ❤️❤️😭😭 I love you so much Thankss for inspiring me and many girls out there you are such a sweetheart I can't express very less people do that that they spread positivity everywhere after seeing you knowing you I've got a aim in life to spread positivity as much as I can be happy always spread that smile they way you do and I'll try my best just wanna say THANKYOU AND I LOVE YOU ❤️❤️❤️#snapchatfam

Kajol
19-Sep-2017 11:16:41 PM

This is actually one of the most beautiful things I've read, you're an amazing being and this makes me proud. #bohofam

Ekta Verma
19-Sep-2017 11:17:12 PM

Hey there! I'm from your snapchat family...I don't exactly remember when I started following you but I do remember the first time I saw your picture and I was like boom! You have something ...some high and amazing vibe and days or maybe weeks later you were everywhere on my insta and snapchat. I check your every post and believe me your snapchat sessions are the best ❤❤❤❤ in the most terrible days you have always brought a smile on my face 🎈🎈 thank you so much for being kind to the people around you and to the world 💞 #yougogirl👯❤

Niharika
19-Sep-2017 11:18:37 PM

Since you just posted on snapchat that you are reading the comments right now i just want to add, please never change❤️When ever we feel down your motivational sessions boosts our energy 🙈It's strange to have such a connection 🙈 But thats why we call you OUR BOHOGIRL❤️And please Come again Chandigarh plz😭Aaajo yr😭

Vyoma
19-Sep-2017 11:19:57 PM

It's the same thing just happened to me few minutes ago I was literally crying and when I read this I felt very motivated coz I was comparing myself to one of my friend.You are so inspiring di this whole thing I can relate to myself.!! ❤❤Thank u di love you so much😘😘

Smriti
19-Sep-2017 11:24:59 PM

Adore you di so much ❤️ really you gave me power to live my life happily your almost all posts I read but this one makes me cry I really don't know why . You have such a beautiful heart ❤️ and I'm feeling blessed that I have a motivational speaker like you such a kind hearted person you're.

Taniya
19-Sep-2017 11:32:00 PM

Thanks for such an inspiring post. Helped a lot... ❤❤❤❤

Vanshika jain
19-Sep-2017 11:32:44 PM

Kritikaa di❤️❤️❤️❤️ You are such a wonderful person seriously telling I've had such a gloomy and a sad day that I was just about to cry and when I read this post of yours it just changed my perception you are such an energy packet that just fills spark inside me to do something or the other each and everyday !☺️ Thanks a lot for all your motivational sessions on Sc 👻 Lots of love 😘😘😘 From one of your bigggesstttt fannnn💋💋 Vanshika🙂🙃

Pranjal gogia
20-Sep-2017 12:03:29 AM

You are the Bestest person i have ever seen in my life and you know what you are a gem and i have no words you are just amazing.. U motivate me alot i m fat i m ugly but now when i see your snapchat and your confidence that you have.. I feel so confident that i am beautiful just the way i am ❤ and i dont want anyone's opinion.. I do hardwork for my self.. Not for anybody else.. But kritika di plz support me like u always do ❤ or as done before ❤love you #bohofam #snapchatfam

Nikita Daga
20-Sep-2017 12:06:13 AM

Thanku soooo much, i dunno how u always end up putting such things when i need it the most, so many of ur snapchat session, ur letter to the 12 year old self n now this. Is it a coincidence or do we really share some kinda bond. I owe my peace of mind to u so many times😭😭😘😘

Sakshi
20-Sep-2017 12:08:24 AM

Tysm for this post..Much needed actually...Just going through a bad phase of my life...This seriously motivated me a lot❤ I wish something good happen with everyone who is struggling...Good luck to you girl...You and Deeksha are my Fav. Bloogers❤❤❤

Vaishnavi
20-Sep-2017 12:16:53 AM

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️ You are wonderful, just like magic

Sanaya Sharma
20-Sep-2017 12:33:14 AM

Snap Fam👄

Shivleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 12:54:59 AM

I have been feeling like this for a long time and now im in that black hole you described about and I so wanna get out of it and right Now at 0.52am all Im feeling is let down and betrayed and worthless and its just that I so so so can't do this or that I dont love my body and theres this sour mood im always in. And this image i contantly feel to keep up with. Im eating my insides away.

RISHIKA MALLICK
20-Sep-2017 01:06:11 AM

Trust me. I myself is going through so much of anxiety and insecurities about myself(not about my physical appearance)for last couple of months.I tried to talk abt it to my boyfriend, friends, family and no one understood me. Everyone just had this one question to ask, "why are you feeling this way?" and everytime my answer will be i don't know. Because i really don't know why i am going through this. Its a weird lonely feeling that i am having even though I am surrounded by bunch of people.But reading your post somewhere inside me I felt good. It did change my thought process a bit and do thank you for that.A reply from you would mean the world to me. PS : you are one of my fashion inspiration. :) ❤

Shivannie
20-Sep-2017 01:11:30 AM

Ohmygosh this is amazing and I've and am going through this right now...you've inspired me ... Guys please check out my blog I've just started and I'll be posting my personal stories and I would love to help those who go through similar things

Shivannie
20-Sep-2017 01:14:47 AM

The name of my blog is the shy girl diaries

Shivannie
20-Sep-2017 01:23:18 AM

www.theshygirldiariesblog.wordpress.com

Ashwarya chadha
20-Sep-2017 08:24:04 AM

Omg! This was so inspiring kritika! You are the best person ever and you always make me feel happy and inspired with your words! I feel so happy and you have really changed my life and inspired me alot because of you i startedy blog and i work hard so that i can also inspire other like you do!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ❤❤❤❤✨

Shelly chauhan
20-Sep-2017 09:06:04 AM

Truly an inspiration.🤗just love it❤❤❤

Nishi
20-Sep-2017 09:27:07 AM

Hi Di ❤️ Thank you so much for always inspiring🤗

Ambika
20-Sep-2017 09:27:20 AM

Am literally crying right now...you are soo amazing! You really motivate us...iloveyou!

Swarn
20-Sep-2017 09:51:42 AM

I cannot thank you enough for this. Good Lord has blessed you with so much positivity and you even share it with the world from time to time ! You're my favouritesssstttt blogger !! I love your Snapchats and all the cool insta stories! Love your genuiness all the time!! #fanfromroorkee

Keerthi Divakaran
20-Sep-2017 10:58:29 AM

Nice one krithika...keep up your work..u have made my day..muaaahhhhh...

Keerthi Divakaran
20-Sep-2017 10:58:35 AM

Nice one krithika...keep up your work..u have made my day..muaaahhhhh...

Keerthi Divakaran
20-Sep-2017 10:58:51 AM

Nice one krithika...keep up your work..u have made my day..muaaahhhhh...

Somya Joshi
20-Sep-2017 11:46:28 AM

Waiting for that one day when even i can inspire people bt for that I will have to be brave nowwww...U r such an inspiration ..be the same.. best soul ♥️

Anmol
20-Sep-2017 11:59:10 AM

You are The girl who always bring smile on my face no matter what the situation is but your stories always motivate me n helping me to go ahead and accept the things❤️ Really you are best Krithika Keep smiling and keep motivate others your doing the great work👏🏻👏🏻 Heads of to you🎩

Meera Chandra
20-Sep-2017 02:24:10 PM

Beautiful ❤️

Shukriya meshram
20-Sep-2017 02:42:40 PM

So inspiring you are ❤

Arya
20-Sep-2017 06:10:37 PM

So true and beautiful. Yes that happens ☝☝. And you are so inspiring ❤︎❤︎🌹

Ashima
20-Sep-2017 07:38:36 PM

Love you dii! Really nice post! I m inspired! Keep motivating! N yess thnx for being so humble n true person as u r on snap n on everything. I hv never meeted u but I would love to meet you.😍

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:45:42 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:45:53 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:46:04 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:46:05 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:46:56 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:47:17 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Gurleen Kaur
20-Sep-2017 07:47:18 PM

Till now the best guider or the best person because of whom alot of people just drop their ideas of being lonely n alone. We all who read ur blogs/vlogs ur snapchat stories , instagram posts n alot more - we are blessed to have you ! I just hope that some one day just a day i get chnce to meet you n spent some time with you as uh by ur posts give soo much of positive vibes , soo lets just imagine how it eould be when you ll stnding in front of me ❤ ! Oh god ! I just hope my this dream come true soon di ❤ You be the best ! May God bless you n may you achieve more n more in your life as you are the person who don't need any struggles n stuff 😘 #snapchatfam! #biggest_fan💋

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:03 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:06 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:10 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:11 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:27 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:28 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:28 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:28 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:33:28 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Simran Dahiya
29-Sep-2017 12:38:04 PM

The best post I could ever have seen. Undoubtedly u have the best posts but this literally got me back to my senses as I was low since long and just not feeling myself. In you I don't just see a blogger but a best friend who constantly supports me no matter what. Thanks for always being there Dii so grateful to have you #snapchatfam #bohogirliesforlife

Mantasha
30-Sep-2017 10:38:27 PM

I swear i was waiting for your motivational blog!! From so many days I was waiting🌸🌸🌸 so Relatable it is ❤❤❤ Thanku so much for this motivational blog😘😘😘 and thank u thanku u for making videos for us & giving your precious time for us ❤❤ Much love Mantasha Fatima

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